by snowmantherapy | Nov 12, 2025 | Thoughts
Our partners don’t always have to think like we think. That’s what makes life interesting- it would be boring to be married to yourself. In fact, that’s called being single. ...
by snowmantherapy | Jun 13, 2025 | Thoughts, Uncategorized
Wherever you are, be there totally. – Tolle The iconic film, The Karate Kid, was released in 1984. Along with Dirty Dancing and The Godfather trilogy, the lessons of Mr. Miyagi for his student, Daniel, became part of the contemporary culture of the late...
by snowmantherapy | Feb 13, 2025 | Thoughts
One of my earlier recollections about school involved my brother, Ray. He was six years older than I and attended a parochial high school for boys. It was generally acknowledged that he was the “brains” of our family and, predictably, always received...
by snowmantherapy | Jun 27, 2024 | Thoughts
Those of you who are familiar with this author’s concept of “the Snowman” will understand this month’s message. The Snowman reminds us that everything in our life, our actions and feelings, flow from certain ideas or beliefs that we hold. But what happens...
by snowmantherapy | Oct 31, 2023 | Thoughts
“Trauma creates change you don’t choose. Healing is about creating change you do choose.” –Michelle Rosenthal For a long time, I have been working with a young, retired US Army enlisted man. My client served in Iraq, and his experiences overseas continue...
by snowmantherapy | Jun 27, 2023 | Thoughts
Over my years as a counselor, much of my professional life has been spent in dealing with those suffering from some form of negative addiction. These present in various ways: alcohol, gambling, or other drugs. We can harm ourselves with food, compulsive shopping,...