Dr. John V. Farrar
the snowman therapist

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Dr. John’s Book…


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Dr. John’s recent book dealing with female mate selection is the result of many years of research and data collection from over 300 girls and women who shared their experience with dysfunctional and underachieving partners.

His collection and cataloging of the thoughts from those women have led to the identification of six reasons, or “strands” as Dr. John characterizes them.

  • Low self-esteem
  • Nurturing
  • Excitement
  • Control
  • Desire to be Nurtured
  • Chemistry

The first six chapters of his book, therefore, detail the description and explanation of those six motivations for self-reported poor partner choices.

The second half of the book, also laid out in six chapters, draws upon Dr. John’s forty years of experience as a teacher, professor, and therapist. Chapters 7 through 12 outline steps that the reader may employ (or share with friends, daughters, or granddaughters) to avoid future relationship disappointments.

The work reflects Dr. John’s hope that his sharing of the thoughts of 300 former clients and students will enable the readers to avoid another puzzling and unfulfilling choice of a partner.



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Thoughts. Behaviors. Feelings. These are the three pillars of the Farrars' approach to counseling. As a cognitive counselor, Dr. John believes our behaviors and feelings stem from our thoughts.

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Dr. John & Anita treat both adults and adolescents on topics including chemical dependency, couples and family counseling, as well as employment-related problems and issues, with emphasis on not having to use recreational or prescribed substances.

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Dump the Neanderthal, Choose Your Prime Mate

Dr. John draws upon years of experience and his work with over 300 women to identify six reasons why women choose dysfunctional and under-achieving partners.

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Dr. John is an enthusiastic and entertaining presenter, able to convey his cognitively-oriented messages to audiences with a clear and entertaining style.

Call him today to schedule a workshop or seminar for you or your organization.

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