Dr. John V. Farrar
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WHERE DO YOU STAND?

In human relationships, distance is not measured in miles but in affection. Two people can be right next to each other, yet miles apart. — Unknown The science of proxemics can be described as the “science of distances.” It is related to the concept of “body language”...

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A TRIAD OF UNFINISHED BUSINESS

A man should not leave this earth with unfinished business.  He should live each day as if it were a pre-flight check.  He should ask each morning, “Am I prepared to lift off?” Frolov Prudence demands, irrespective of our age and stage in life, that we engage in some...

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WHAT IS SYZYGY?

“It is more rewarding to resolve a conflict than to dissolve a relationship.”  - Josh McDowell In the process of teaching our graduate course in counseling theory, I re-encountered a term from Carl Gustav Jung.  The word is “sygyzy,” and it has applications to...

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Life is a Rorschach Test

“What if the way we perceive a problem is already part of the problem?” Zizek Life is a Rorschach Test Rorschach test- a psychological test in which subjects’ perceptions of inkblots are recorded using psychological interpretation, algorithms or both. It is generally...

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LIGHTING THE FUSE & DOUSING IT!

Just remember, when you ignore your significant other (silent treatment), you are teaching them to live without you.                   Lighting the Fuse……And Dousing It A few newsletters ago, we spoke of “Joe the Doorman.” In that article, we discussed the relative...

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Thoughts. Behaviors. Feelings. These are the three pillars of the Farrars’ approach to counseling. As a cognitive counselor, Dr. John believes our behaviors and feelings stem from our thoughts.

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Dr. John & Anita treat both adults and adolescents on topics including chemical dependency, couples and family counseling, as well as employment-related problems and issues, with emphasis on not having to use recreational or prescribed substances.

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Dump the Neanderthal, Choose Your Prime Mate

Dr. John draws upon years of experience and his work with over 300 women to identify six reasons why women choose dysfunctional and under-achieving partners.

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Dr. John is an enthusiastic and entertaining presenter, able to convey his cognitively oriented messages to audiences with a clear and entertaining style.

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