THE SHAPING OF OUR LIVES

The Shaping of our Lives Twenty five years ago, Dr. Morris Massey produced and narrated a series of educational tapes which described the influence of certain cultural and historical events on any individual’s development.  Massey referred to such a personal watershed...

ACT AS IF……..

Act as If……….. As my readers have learned by now, I’m a real movie fan. Like most aficionados of the silver screen, I have a few favorite actors. One of them is the recently deceased box office titan, Paul Newman. Paul was nominated for Oscars numerous times before...

Just Do It

As my students and clients can attest, I generally explain that I consider myself to be a cognitive therapist. This simply means that I proceed from the stance that our thoughts dictate our actions, and our actions determine how we are feeling. This view is the...

“In-Sight the Source”

In my last newsletter, entitled, “Two Buckets,” I discussed how our individual view of life affects our thoughts, our actions, and our feelings. Much of that piece explored our ability to discriminate between elements in our life that we can make happen versus facets...

Two Buckets

As most of my counseling students and clients can attest, I am a storyteller; a raconteur.  Hopefully, my stories make some point about the craft of counseling with my future clinicians.  Ideally, the stories I share with clients will serve as an image or reminder of...

A Matter of Volume

Courtesy of Netflix, my wife Anita and I had the pleasure of re-watching an old classic, To Kill a Mockingbird. The Harper Lee best seller was destined to become a staple of American literature, read by millions of high school students.  A few years ago, we attended...