by snowmantherapy | Jul 13, 2021 | Behaviors
If you’re giving love and not receiving it, you’re in the wrong relationship. If you’re receiving love and not giving it, then you are taking advantage of the other person. Stagner The Case Against Humility Last week’s newsletter...
by snowmantherapy | Jun 22, 2021 | Behaviors
You can only give what you allow yourself to receive. Lawlis Most of us, when, we hear the word “addiction” understandably have our thoughts turn to dangerous and self-destructive behaviors. But Dr. William Glasser, the creator of Reality Therapy, suggests a...
by snowmantherapy | May 25, 2021 | Behaviors
What you leave behind is not what is engraved in monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others. Pericles Does your cell phone ever get clogged with messages...
by snowmantherapy | May 10, 2021 | Behaviors
In my book about relationships, Dump the Neanderthal and Choose your Prime Mate, a salient point was made about the nature and dynamics of communication: “The outcome of the vast majority of communications is predictable” In his landmark book, How to Win...
by snowmantherapy | Apr 16, 2021 | Behaviors
In the past, we have often written about the limitations of so called “binary thinking.” Such thought asks us to judge almost anything in one of two ways. Right vs. wrong; truth vs lies; good vs. bad, etc. We’ve previously stated that such a simple way of...
by snowmantherapy | Mar 30, 2021 | Behaviors
“I hated the distance between us .It left me unbalanced – like parts of myself were fading. As a trainer and supervisor of therapists, I see that new practitioners are often faced with a perplexing dilemma. In their zeal to be successful and helpful to...