YOU MIGHT BE AN ADDICT IF……

You might be an addict if…… The affable down-home comedian, Jeff Foxworthy, carved out a successful career for himself initially with a panoply of one-liners built around the introductory phrase “you might be a redneck if…” Aside from being amused by the...

Love: A Competition

Love: A Competition Like most men, I grew up with an appetite for competition. From Little League baseball to high school sports, I became accustomed to good-natured striving for success. As a young teacher, I became involved in coaching. This competition took on more...

IF

IF Over one hundred years ago (1895) the British Nobel Laureate, Rudyard Kipling, wrote the famous poem, “If.” While the subject matter is told from the point of view of a father giving instructions to his son on how a man functions, it always struck me that at least...

It’s Not your Fault

It’s Not Your Fault Over the years, one of my clinical functions has been to conduct court-mandated substance abuse evaluations for those convicted of a drug or alcohol-related offense. These may involve “drinking and driving” offenses, drug possession charges or...

Is Your Chariot Balanced?

Are Your Horses Pulling Your Chariot in the Same Direction? When I was the chair of the counseling department at Churchill High School in Livonia, I was once asked by the principal to address problems that the school was facing with ninth graders. As most secondary...